FANKEOW!

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Bravehound Andrews’s latest mix “Criminal” is out after a long wait!! just when i needed new thumpa-thumpas for my workout (which by the way has been going great. my PT really pushes me hard each time, and i have aches in places i never knew existed. okay, i know i have a butt, but my butt was never this sore – not even when i was always squeezing my bottom and poising my head when in ballet class!)… but i digress!

along with the mix, i read that Andrew is no longer with Mark. they’ve been together for 7 years, an eternity in gay years really. they made sucha great handsome couple (in fact, if you follow Andrew’s photoblog, you’ll be pardoned for wondering if he has any less than handsome-looking friends), it’s sad for me to see them going separate ways cos i’ve been following their lifestory for a while now, and had always found them an inspiration – two strikingly gifted guys in a committed relationship – that it’s possible and a reality. it gave me hope.

i guess no one else, other than the parties involved, know best – when it’s time to move on. few things last forever so we must cherish when we have it tangible in our hands. it sucks whenever a long term relationship comes to an end. a part of you just dies. in a way, you feel like another person has died too. how can that be pain-free, no matter the reason?

but move on we must. and we will move on. i’ve seen it happen with E. it was so painful for her when she broke up with Ig, but every cell in me knew back then that she would feel better, and would find renewed faith in love. and look where she is now.

when the door shuts, another will open. just remember to open your heart.

Andrew, thanks for sharing your talent, and you will be fine. =)

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